Thursday, May 8, 2014
Despite my growing emphasis on my experience of grief in the
most recent weeks and months of my blog I do feel a lot of joy and excitement
in my life these days as well. I
am excited by what may be possible in what Richard Rohr calls the ‘second half
of life’. The utter implosion of
the structure of my life last June catapulted me decisively into what felt like
an all too abrupt transition over the threshold into my second half of
life. I hope I have at least as
many years before me as I do behind me partly because I believe the rest of my
life will make the quality, clarity and vividness of the first half of my life
seem like muddy water in comparison.
As I noted yesterday the world seems so incredibly vivid now. My capacity for clear perception
appears to be continually healing.
One thing that fascinates me these days is the color
green. The grasses of Minnesota
seem to positively burst forth into aliveness almost immediately after the snow
cover of winter melts away. I
suspect the relatively slow thaw of winter into the season of spring also
helped quite a bit by allowing much of the melted snow to soak into the
Earth. We might not suffer from
drought conditions at all this summer!
And it will be the first summer of the rest of my life.
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I am happy to recount an especially positive development today. My Medical Assistance health insurance will remain valid through the end of 2014 regardless of how much income I earn. I thus have an eight month window of time in which I can focus on continuing to improve my health with said focus incurring nothing more than the cost of my own time. After 2015 begins it appears I may need to change my insurance as by that time I expect my income from my work may render me ineligible to receive Medical Assistance. I expect whatever health insurance I would then purchase would require me to make at least a co-pay for my weekly psychotherapeutic work.
Money, time and resources are certainly a major concern for me considering what I went through last year. I was effectively not working a paying job for nine whole months. Yes, I had my fellowship from the American Council on Germany which I can list on my resume but I was conducting research related to that project on a part-time basis only. The rest of the time I was engaged in the demanding process of restoring my physical and mental health at the same time. Not until March of this year did I essentially complete the physical therapy journey (which I had begun last August).
It would be easy for me to fall into a state of resentment regarding the fact that I am, at the age of forty, still spending my time and money to attend to the psychic wounds I experienced as a result of the irresponsible behavior, corrupt professional conduct and downright violence of other people who were a part of my early life history over thirty years ago. Remaining motivated in the face of such extraordinarily challenging circumstances was an amazing challenge in itself. These wounds will take time to heal but I am well on my way now. I have accomplished a lot in the last ten months. If I accomplish nearly the same in the next eight months I will be in a very strong position to finally start realizing some of my biggest dreams I have for my life.
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I am happy to recount an especially positive development today. My Medical Assistance health insurance will remain valid through the end of 2014 regardless of how much income I earn. I thus have an eight month window of time in which I can focus on continuing to improve my health with said focus incurring nothing more than the cost of my own time. After 2015 begins it appears I may need to change my insurance as by that time I expect my income from my work may render me ineligible to receive Medical Assistance. I expect whatever health insurance I would then purchase would require me to make at least a co-pay for my weekly psychotherapeutic work.
Money, time and resources are certainly a major concern for me considering what I went through last year. I was effectively not working a paying job for nine whole months. Yes, I had my fellowship from the American Council on Germany which I can list on my resume but I was conducting research related to that project on a part-time basis only. The rest of the time I was engaged in the demanding process of restoring my physical and mental health at the same time. Not until March of this year did I essentially complete the physical therapy journey (which I had begun last August).
It would be easy for me to fall into a state of resentment regarding the fact that I am, at the age of forty, still spending my time and money to attend to the psychic wounds I experienced as a result of the irresponsible behavior, corrupt professional conduct and downright violence of other people who were a part of my early life history over thirty years ago. Remaining motivated in the face of such extraordinarily challenging circumstances was an amazing challenge in itself. These wounds will take time to heal but I am well on my way now. I have accomplished a lot in the last ten months. If I accomplish nearly the same in the next eight months I will be in a very strong position to finally start realizing some of my biggest dreams I have for my life.
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